"I need to see it with someone there. If it's gonna keep going on, I need to."

Like I said, it doesn't work, him shuffling off this part of himself into a dark, secret place that I'm not allowed to get to.

"I wanted to let you have this for yourself, but obviously that isn't gonna work anymore. It's gotta be mine as much as it's yours. If you can't let me in there, it's over. I'll light a match to the place if I have to. Is that somethin' you can agree to?"